Given that many a dancer's internet forum serves about as much clarity as a three year old a megaphone, I thought it was time that I expanded the conversation on social dancing into areas where many won't tread, or because of their bizarre rules on posting can't tread. So here are five conversations we could be having but we don't... 1) where are all the people with disabilities in dancing? We know why they might be put off, but we also now that there is both commercial sense and genuine appreciation of dancers with disabilities. We have teachers in our midsts, we have perfectly good venues (deposit what some might suggest) and we have stacks of dancers eager to dance with people with disabilities (hidden or visible). But they don't come. What does that say about us? 2) we have still not stopped idiot men "teaching" on the dance floor and most especially teaching drops. How is this acceptable on a dance ...